45 days

The thearpist said that to get him in a 45day tx, will at least give us sometime to heal and get things back in perspective, she also said she didnt think 45 days would help him too much but it is easier to get him in 45days and then longeterm vs just going for longterm.

she stated over and over again that he needs to go and for us to not feel guilty. She said the tests that i requested for him could take a long time due to waiting lists,at least while he is there, they can do all that.

I realize this is for the best, but it kills me. We have discussed this with each other and we come to the conclusion that things happen for reasons. maybe the reason he came to us, was for just this, to get this child services that his previous foster parents neglected to give him. (you know the story on that) who knows, but were trying our best to realize that this is the best thing. even in our hearts we know.